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My son is now 20 months since I give birth to him natural I'm sure i had a tear, however the midwife said I didn't. Since after having him I feel very sore after sex on the outside at the bottom of my lady parts, with my first I tore inside and out and this just feels the same, for example I had sex this morning and it hurt not inside just on the outside at the bottom, it's not been cut or anything like that as since having him it's been sore ESP after sex having a wee. Should I go back to doctors to get it checked incase it was a tear? mother of the brides or groom wears suitable for fall